In my experience, I have had couples that are very loving towards each other. They have great paying jobs and have settled in the so called, “American dream life.” Their only wish is to have a baby to complete their family. Infertility issues have increased in high income countries and no one can explain the reason behind it.
Some of them have gone in the direction of science. They have tried on IVF’s and struggled emotionally and mentally because of it. They have no issues physically, except after trying for several years when there is no conception, they get termed as Infertility.
Ayurveda defined it clearly thousands of years earlier. A couple, apart from have a healthy ovum and sperms also need divine help to conceive a baby. We are all spirits living inside a body.
If your body is healthy and definitely capable of conceiving, the missing link is a spirit who is delaying the process of choosing new parents—the baby is not ready to enter your lives yet.
That spirit, which has to choose you as parents, is not here yet. If you are not spiritual, this article may seem nothing but words. If you are science minded and assume a pill can offer you another being, then this may be a waste of time for you to read.
What is the reason that a soul is not choosing you as a parent? Why is there a delay? Have you wondered this several time? I have wondered for a long time.
According to the quantum theory, you create your reality.
Ancient texts have already mentioned this thousands of years before,
“Yatha dristhi that ha shshrti.” As an observer, you are creating your reality.
The more you feed yourself with information of how the world is not good; you attract the same energy towards you.
You try for 6 months to 1 year and the efforts go down a little. Dissipating thoughts arise in your mind, “Is there something wrong with me?” " Is there something wrong with my partner?" and so your mind plays several movies on your mind.
Because of all this, you start your journey of looking into infertility clinics.
Due to visits to several doctors, you have installed a beautiful program of,
“Why is it not working for me?”
Soon, you are new patient to several other doctors, You now have a team of acupuncturists, Reiki healers, other herbalists and our most famous money making chemical inducing infertility clinics.
All of them have the same programming of, “Why are you not conceiving?” as a pop up error message every time they see you. As soon as they see you, the energy that is followed by a thought is, “they are struggling to conceive.” Each person now adds on to the energy of " They are not conceiving" all of them are on look out for that highlighted program, "Why?"
You also inform extended family members and people around you. They are all on the same thought process. “Why are you not conceiving?”
Imagine you had a stain on your shirt. Instead of working on clearing it, you wear it constantly and ask everyone to notice your stain again and again. Now the stain has started to look so big that it is constantly on your mind. All you think of is, “there is a stain on my shirt.” even if some people don't see is it, you carrying the energy of look at my stain can catch attention of others.
Now, everyone is used to seeing the same stain you carry in your energy field. To add on to this situation, your family and doctors choose to show you your stain and keep mentioning your shirt is getting old.
Very similar people who ask, “Why do I have to pay so many bills?”
They end up manifesting more bills to pay. Universe generously bringing the same energy and more bills for them to pay.
You asked, “Why?” And the universe responds in showing you the reasons "why" over and over again.
You are carrying a so much baggage in your energy field. Then, you attract similar minded people who share their experience of not able to conceive and pour out their emotional journey. Please stop spreading news about how and why you’re not able to conceive, it’s just going to add to the team of people who are creating the same situation for you again.
Everyone has babies so easily. Why don’t you? More and more people add on with your experience and make it seem like it is impossible. They even offer you suggestions of other methods. While your mind hasn't been able to figure out answer for your question.
Soon you will start feeling sorry about not making a baby for your own. Doctors also love showing you your age, the big number—they like telling you that you are 38 and above.
If you are in the blame game, then your mind will love to project it on your partner. mind may pop up some other reasons, it may be due to smoking and drinking in your teenage years, and several others. You kind of develop a negative thought process towards your beautiful body. There is no end when your mind gets creative. “Why am I not able to conceive?”
Your mind's main function is to retrieve data from your experiences.
If you ever take into consideration, you are an infinite being on this planet. You are here to enjoy everything that is available. Allow you to really manifest everything and experience everything. Soon, it will start to seem very easy.
These are some activities that you can work on:
First week, visualize and meditate on someone bringing you a bag of apples. Every day, sit in a comfortable place and meditate on receiving a bag of apples. You do not have to match a face; just imagine you are so grateful that someone brought you apples. See yourself receiving it and feeling extremely happy and thanking them. It may take a day, or a month. But this activity needs patience and determination. You are customizing your order of receiving apples from the universe. It will take time to show up in your energy field, depending on the self-doubt you have in your thought pattern.
Work on deleting your self-doubts, all kinds of thoughts will arise.
“This is silly, my doctor knows better, my body is my doctors responsibility, the ovulation monitor doesn’t lie, etc…”
On the first day, your mind will show how many ways are there for you to go and get apples. Give it time, and ignore what your mind shows you. The universe has to keep bringing solutions to get the apples. Throughout this time, continue visual meditation on receiving apples in some way or other. It doesn’t have to come to you in a certain way, like only your husband has to buy and so forth.It may be offered by a coworker or a grocery store may simply give an apple. There are several ways of receiving.
Even if you reject an apple from a coworker, the universe knows what you really want and it will bring it to you again and again until you finally accept it with gratitude.
Once you receive the apple, which is your experience in your field of energy. Be grateful and spread gratitude and let that circulate in your friend’s circle on how receiving an apple was a miracle that came true. You manifested it out of nowhere. It is important to discuss this with near and dear ones. It will help your mind believe that you attracted apples. You will definitely attract the new life in you.
Next find another object to start visual meditation. This may take longer or a few days. Being open to receive unconditionally is the key to start manifesting it.
Question the universe. A small kid will try as many ways as possible to get what he wants. He stops at nothing! He will disregard your ‘no's’ and is persistent. Ask the universe, “Show me ways to be pregnant and receive a new life.” Similarly, the soul needs to be part of your journey will have to find you eventually.
Maybe there’s family for that spirit who do not want to let go of their elderly. These days our life span has increased, that may be delaying a life to begin new journey. Whatever may be the reason for the delay, as a couple, let this beautiful guest make its way into your home. Energy reaches the spirit. Pray, send blessing to the family associated with the spirit to let go.
Emphasis that this baby will be part of your life now, you as parents are ready to receive and welcome. So you can enjoy the new addition to your family.
Meditate every day. Ask this new addition to make its way—say you are prepared, ready to receive this being. When you want a guest to visit you, you let them know that you have their room ready and are cooking several dishes just so they choose to come live with you. Make your love tempting, so the delay can stop and a pure soul can choose you as parents.
Start to visualize your baby. Your psychology will definitely create and manifest into the biology of a new baby. If you work spiritually, nothing is impossible! 😊
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