I am mother of 4 and I would love to add on a new entertainment channel sooner or later. 
Yep, I call my babies everything from, “my products, my investments, my billion $.” They keep me entertained so they are my entertainment channel. When you have more than one, it’s fun to sit and enjoy their personalities, their tantrums, their way of caring, loving each other, and their annoyance. My life is so damn meaningful in several ways than one. If you have a big family, you will know it is the combination of different personality that satisfy the soul.
There is no pleasure out there, that is as simple and soothing as your babies giggles. The joy they bring with their stories make it all worth it.

My hubby and I have two boys together, he has been asking for a girl baby for a long time. That I, somehow, know there is one waiting to be part of our family. 
I already have 2 girls from my previous marriage and have 2 boys. I am totally blessed in the baby making area. To add another into the family is an awesome. 
 
However, in today’s “amazing” world,
When I express that intention out, I love to hear comments from others:
People from medical fields immediately say, “You know, you cannot make a normal baby after 40?” 
“Haven’t you had enough?” 
“Don’t do this to your body!”
“Really? One more? Don’t you think that’s a lot on your body?” 
 
I am from a subcontinent, whose population is catching up to be number one soon! 
So I get to hear Indian versions of comments too. 
“India is already populated enough.” 
“You are Indian, don’t you know by now what increase in population can do?” 
“Do you have money to send them to college?”
“You need to start saving up.” 
My maid servant in India told her amazing idea to my mom. She asked my mom to get my tubes tied before I left India, otherwise I would bring 2 more babies on my next visit. 
 
Why are people so concerned about my personal issues? Have you wondered why you are suddenly topic of concern? Why does science reject 40 plus women? Some women are really healthy and can make babies easily, according to my experience. 
Why does the world love to hand you their “sun glasses” and ask you to see the world through each one of their perspective? 
 
It’s another baby. Additional souls bring their own fortune.
Are we as a society not interested in having a guest anymore? 
 
I am married to my American husband and I think if I don’t help America, there won't  be way too many left to call themselves whites in America. White people don’t make that many babies anymore. So I am proud of myself to return the generosity to the nation.
I make fabulous babies, healthy, smart, and wise souls have chosen me. So why not create one more product in an insane world. 
 
In my experience, diapers are expensive is a useless comment. I used diapers for all my kids, and I bought them; recyclable and disposable. We never felt it was expensive, potty training got easier and quick after each baby.
"Babies eat a lot", nope. I cooked for my babies, all my kids eat, but not so much that it burns a hole in my pocket. They don’t get packaged goods and store bought foods, I love to cook for them fresh in the morning and afternoon. 
 
I work with women over 40 to make their dream come true of being a mother. Surprisingly they make amazing 8-9 lb. babies. People in the medicine fields treat them like they are crazy and are risking their lives to have a baby. I make sure to prepare these ladies to reject opinions of science scared cats. But in actual my experience says, “You are so much more mature to make an amazing baby at 40 than in your 20’s. 
 
It all depends on the woman and her health. If you are a guinea pig to the medical industry and have a million issues physically, you may need to stop making products. Then, I clearly get it, it is risky. If you have had more than 2 C- section, tearing open your uterus again is certainly a bad idea. Mother's who have tried too long, couldn't conceive during their peak career time and is ready to invest time in creating a baby should be encouraged. Science did not exist few hundred   years back, baby's were birthed during that time. Women did get pregnant at 40's, some did great, some may not have. 
 
I love the saying, “Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”
I love that I have learnt to recognize people handing their sun glasses to me. Now, I reject immediately. 
I have always been healthy. I have had emotional ups and downs as an adult. Apart from that, my body is fabulous and extremely healthy. After I did my unassisted birth, I take my body’s cues very seriously. I love my life in such a vast perspective that when people say I cannot do something, that is when I have to prove them wrong. 
It’s been an amazing journey. I was a rebel since birth. J
Now that I am nearly kissing my 40, I pick and choose what I need to prove and what I can reject.
 
I teach seniors and hangout with lot of people born in the 1920’s or 1930’s. They have one big piece of advice that they give. "Don’t let age pass by, that you regret not doing it." 
One lady said, "You can never have enough". 
None of them ever complain, "my baby ate a lot and took all my money". They never mention that they paid for college for all the kids and they don’t spend time with me. 
They live in senior living and adjust to their lives and are excited to see when their family visits them. Having kids is a blessing. If you can make your own fantastic, if not adopting is an amazing quality.
 
Such opinionated sunglasses are given to our next generation and they have so many infertility issues. Fear is fed in them from early on. With just 
You come without any money, you are taken care. Universe bends over its back to support you. Gaia loves us to keep giving us what we need. Humans screw it up! Nature knows how to recycle humans too. 
When you don’t have a soul picking you as parents, think about what all you say out loud regarding having an uninvited guest home. 
Are you constantly busy? It’s not time yet?  You are not ready? such sentences in your energy field is blocking your ability to make a good baby.

My mom lost 3 babies after me and that never induced fear into me. Every time I got pregnant, my mom said, “Stop no more.” 
It took time for her to understand its luxury in having spirits to share your life with. 
 
If not for relationships, there is nothing more meaningful in the world. We, as spirits, learn through experiences and expressing ourselves; and we need company of other, different souls. 
If there is a desire, manifest it! 
Life is too short to regret, compromise and live in suffering. 
 
Stop borrowing sun glasses from others. The world was a beautiful place and a much happier place before we started nuclear families. It will always be abundant and beautiful. Stop spreading the fears you carry. 
I suggest my clients, if you have the desire to add a baby to your family. Do it! Nature has provided with several herbs that can enhance the uterus and create a great environment. 
With determination, Miracles happen...

When a woman conceives, she has several questions that run through her mind. Every thought is related to the welfare of the creation she is working on. Her hormones change and the increase in progesterone levels add to the discomfort of her growing body. 
In today’s world, working is inevitable. A lot of women do not have the luxury of staying home. Resting or working becomes a choice. I sometimes ask my clients, obstetrics is also part of a career; to have a baby is important for your self-growth and transformation into the next phase of life. Sometimes, a baby is a surprise. No one in the family is ready yet. Instead of creating too many unwelcoming thoughts, it is important to accommodate as life happens. Just flow with the  life surprises. If you are a control freak, this area is not under your control, learn to surrender.

One question i come across often is, is there a way around prenatal discomfort? 
 We forget that our body is doing all that it has to, to make room for the little one. I personally taught throughout my pregnancy. A lot of women work till their due date, or till the baby is ready to show up. Discomforts exists in all pregnancies. Frequency and intensity differ with each woman and with every new pregnancy. It is up to you to accept the discomfort and figure out solutions or create millions of thoughts of how hard whole journey is. Keep the end results on mind that will create a joyous outlook on the entire journey.
 
These are some of the ways you can manage working and being pregnant at the same time. Accept that your mind slows down and in certain situations you can forget things. Do not assume that your body is the same. I like to write notes to remind me of a lot of things as I progress in my pregnancy. It is proved scientifically that we lose brain cells with each pregnancy. I have had 4 of them, so I am not sure about the count of my brain cells. I have had such amazing experiences with each pregnancy. I have gotten better in managing it now. Below are 5 types of meditation that helped ease my life and bring harmony in my family and my journey with each pregnancy.
 
Meditation can improve your concentration and also result in the baby’s ability to be calm and concentrate. It also provides foundation for bonding that happens later when the baby arrives. It removes frustrations, and brings clarity into women's mind. Pregnancy can trigger certain emotions that are not worth taking a ride on, as everything is absorbed a tiny little one inside you.
 

• Simple breathing (So-Hum Meditation): I usually do this as soon as I get home. It energizes me immediately. When I was carrying my little one, I drove an hour and half everyday back and forth, as my commute to teach at different federal buildings in DC. When I got home, I always had a sink full of dishes and other kids who needed me to cook dinner for them. Sometimes I had no food, if I reached home hungry.  What I cooked before I left home would not wait for me, so I always made sure to stop and eat before I reached home. No one wants to receive a hungry preggers, neither are you in a state to give all a smile and hug. Some days, I sat in the car and took 5-10 min on focusing on my breathing.                                   Each inhale I named as SO and each exhale is named HUM. It erased all my restless thoughts. My mind calmed down as I visualized going through the whole evening, helping my family. It helped me practice acceptance, instead of expecting everyone in the family to understand your tiredness and exhaustion. I come across several clients who struggle with managing their emotions when they get home. They take complete liberty in throwing their frustration from the whole day on the near and dear ones. We, somewhere, ask for our family to somehow understand our tired and exhaustion with out communicating it. We tend to give our best to all the people whom we interact through out the day, sometimes even strangers. We tend to miss use the love and hand out our crap to people who love us the most, our family. So-Hum Meditation has always helped me to not show resentment, frustration and exhaustion on my family. I went home lovingly asking, “How can I serve you all?”. I vibrating at peacefulness and calmness, soon made everyone pitch in. All the dishes were done by my hubby. He even helped out in cooking. Within few days, they understood I have long days and asked me sit on couch as they all got together to be a pleasant and happy family. I understood the meaning of "Giving pleasantly" as I practiced acceptance.
• Self-Affirmations: We as women work a lot. We, deep in our hearts love to expect people to notice and appreciate us. We sometimes live all our life waiting for someone to just compliment and reaffirm that we give a lot. I usually tell my clients, no one is waiting to give you an Oscar at the end of our journey. We, establish the foundation of how people should treat us. I ask all my clients to appreciate themselves. Affirmations help us feed in awesomeness that exists in the world. Our minds love to hear good words. According to research, Human brain listens to what we say out loud and images we create along. If I created images of the sink full of dirty dishes and everyone ignoring me when I get home, your mind will resent your family; and create energies that aren’t pleasant and harmonious. When the baby you are carrying sees world through you, you want the new member to love and share a harmonious relationship with each member of the family. It is unfair to the arriving soul to have resentful and unloving images and feelings towards the family members.  Self-affirmations reassure the baby to sense, how amazing the world is. Images that emphasize everyone is amazing, ready to receive the little one, creates warmth and welcoming environment inside and outside. We all work hard and would love to provide all that we can for our kids. Affirmations provide our mind to believe in good things and when every cell in your body listens to how you talk to yourself, it reaches good energies to the growing baby. The baby naturally gains confidence and this will in return reduce all kinds of complications in labor. Self-affirmation, words that are positive for yourself, your family, and strong affirmative sentences all results into manifesting our amazing reality.

•  Guided visual meditation: I have several guided meditations that I do on myself every night before I fall asleep. All my babies have slept through out the night, leaving me with a great night sleep. With each guided mediation, my aches and pains reduced. I fell asleep magically, even with the worst severe heart burn that  was a nightmare towards end of my pregnancy. As I taught my classes, I took participants through guided meditations too and that added to a calm baby during the days. I drove and taught without taking too many pee breaks. My baby's were completely calm and gentle. They took time to listen to my voice better. Baby's from the womb recognizes mother’s tone of voice. It builds foundation of listening and talking calmly. I personally have noticed babies do not cry much once they are out of intrauterine life, as guided meditation gives your mind to add images to reality.    

 

• Connecting to higher self: We all know that there is something higher than us. Spirits choose you as mom for a reason and karmic bonding happens in the womb. Ask your higher self to communicate and connect with the growing member of the family that bonds you and the baby better. I personally have best relationship with all my kids. I’ve practiced Raja yoga meditation for a long time. I am aware of whom I have a karmic relationship with and who is the new soul that I am supposed to bond with. If you can imagine an example of a play or drama, we do not choose the actors; director takes responsibility to choose actors for us to play with. When we first meet them, we can recognize that we have played a few roles with them before bond instantly, or the spirit is a new addition to the drama cast, needs effort to bond. I could communicate with the higher selves of all my kids. I teach this meditation to most of my clients when they have a spouse with difference of opinion or kids who seem to not listen, and there is a mismatch in their opinions. It is beautiful to connect with your higher self and the spirit who is playing a role with you as a family member. Miscommunications and the difference of opinions ceases to exist as you understand yourself and their patterns better.   

• Gratitude: I cannot mention this enough. I have had several clients who give me such positive feedback after starting a gratitude journal. Gratitude as an energy is at higher frequency, it can manifest anything you want on this planet. Universe is a reflecting mirror, gratitude towards life, all that you are blessed with and this moment is reflected back at you. what you put out and say out loud, more of same energy comes back to you. I have manifested an umbrella on a raining day, free grocery from wholefoods, and a man who carried car batteries to the third floor to restart my van on the coldest day. I am amazingly lucky and gratitude has helped me in all that. I call it my powerful, ultra-pure fuel which generates miracles after miracles in our lives. I express my gratitude for choosing me as “mother” to all my kids. After working with women who struggle to attract a soul as their baby, I realize what a blessed women I am. It is kids who bring pleasure to us, even if my living room is full of mulch and food crumbs. It is luxury to have and enjoy smiles and cries, to support another soul to play their part in this reality.  They see the whole world through me, since god cannot be everywhere, he created mothers. If each mother saw the world as a beautiful place and created babies with complete gratitude, we as a planet will definitely vibrate at a higher frequency.   

I am in bliss, with over pouring gratitude. I get to write my experience and I have "You" to read this. I hope just reading this article may help you as a reader to feel gratitude. Thank you! 
 
 If you want to work with me contact me VinayaSaunders@gmail.com
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